I’ve had a few days now to really let the idea that I’m DYT Type 1/2 sink in. I find myself checking in against it often, and I’ve also seen a lot of patterns confirming this type. I’ve questioned it intensely in my mind, because…well, because I can see aspects of myself in ALL of the types.
Why not a primary Type 2? After all, I’m a notorious pile-maker, and I do worry a lot. Also don’t forget the fact that it’s said that one’s emotional reaction is always one’s primary type, so bring on the water works.
But what about Type 3? Lord knows I adore autumn colors and lots and lots of texture. And don’t I tend to have a stubborn, bullish kind of quality sometimes?
Sure, but Type 4. I’m a huge perfectionist. At times in my past, I’ve had people literally compliment me on my enunciation (which I thought was a rather odd compliment, to be sure). And one of my biggest word descriptors is certainly “stupid”…though I don’t know if I just see an extra dose of stupidity living in the city like I do, making it pop out of my mouth so often.
So, yeah. I guess I AM all of the types. And to some degree, that’s true. We ARE all of the types…in degrees. And figuring out the degrees of what is what is super important to me.
Keywords are generalities for sure, but once I sat down with some real honesty I could see that this is the right fit for me, and that a lot of my other behaviors are learned ones due to my difficult upbringing.
The huge problem I come across now is some differences of opinion, and this is the point where I decided I HAVE to diverge and go my own way on the Dressing Your Truth scheme.
The number one disconnect for me is the wearing of gold jewelry and accessories. Sounds kind of lame, I know. But what I do know for a fact is that gold isn’t the greatest on me. I really look good in silver. This, according to some, would kick me off the DYT bandwagon immediately, and though I still have an urge to do it one day, I’m kind of glad that I’ve not spent the money on the actual course. Anyone with some common sense can find out everything they need to know about this system to apply it very effectively to their life.
So what to do about the gold vs. silver debate?
Well. I have decided to keep my silver and continue to omit gold (except for maybe rose gold, though I’ve not tried it yet). At the same time, I know that a Spring type (Type 1) must be light and uplifting. So I will keep my silver BUT also make sure it’s very shiny, and not wear heavy pieces that will drag that energy down. I will also endeavor to ensure that it’s playful and fun.
Another problem I’ve had that’s almost as important as the gold vs. silver debate is the colors themselves. When I think of Type 1, this is what comes into my mind:
And oh my gosh. This really feels like too much. I just cannot do these ultra-bright type of colors. I have a literal visceral reaction against them, like I’m nauseated. In fact, even posting that picture on here and looking at it makes me feel a wee bit queasy. So obviously that’s not good.
I don’t want to walk around constantly feeling like I might just throw up at any time. Ha.
I need a little more subtlety to pull off anything remotely Type 1…and realistically, maybe that’s where my secondary Type 2 comes in. In the course, you’re supposed to use Type 1 colors, metals, style, and lines with two or three different secondary Type 2 style elements (in my case, softening up the Type 1 energy a little bit). But I’d like to take it a step further. I’d like to take it here instead:
Anyway, those are my ideas. I’m going to continue to solidify this idea over pinterest. Follow me there through the link on the top of this blog.